signs of doubt

i think i might be a little bit off. i didn't once doubt the fact that we'd be going to camp this weekend and yet it was canceled. was i ever really supposed to go to the high school camp at all? God, you know how much i wanted and needed that. why have you taken it from me? there are times that i start to doubt if i'm really supposed to be going of to moscow or not. i mean i know that God has ordained this and He's been setting all of this up but now i have no money. i have no way of paying for this trip and getting over there. God, how and when will you provide? you're seriously starting to scare me. like really bad. am i supposed to go? please just tell me. i'm so frustrated with this waiting and not knowing. then i've been having doubts about rendell. i really like him and he cares about he alot. i could basically barf right in front of him and he'd still adore me. is he bringing me down in my walk? no not really. but is he supporting me in it? no not really. i am walking all on my own in this relationship and i'm supposed to somehow be maintaining the purity for both of us. thats alot of pressure and self control that i dont have. rendell says that he'll wait for me while i'm in Russia. is it better for me to break things off with him so he isn't forced to wait? i mean i understand that he is willing but how long will he really last? i mean he said so himself that he hasn't even reached love yet. that's not too promising. also, what's going on with shawn? i mean i understand the whole thing about him being busy but if he has time to text me that he doesnt have time, than he has time to text a response. i feel like i kinda freaked him out with all my rendell questions. like maybe it traslated as me saying i'd break up with him for shawn or something. chelsae says he's backing off because he's falling in love with me. now that is something i highly doubt. i've already given him reasons to lose respect for me. i mean, i ask him for prayer for purity. he hasn't even kissed a girl yet, what interest would he have in me? none. so that's obviously not the situation. i'm just really confused. he's one of my best guy friends and i dont even have his support right now with all of this going on. i hope he isn't separating himself because there's stuff going on in his life. i hope he isn't depressed again. i hope he's alright. i really do love that guy. i miss my shawnathon. hopefully some of these answers start clearing up soon. i dont like confusion.

Get a grip, Teresa

in an effort to observe tradition, i will start of this post by saying: i haven't updated in a while. its been almost a month if we want to get down to specifics. it continues to be a difficult season for me but again, i should expect that with the upcoming trip. allow me to do a short recap of what i've been up to before i start complaining about my life. well for new years me, chelsae, and rendell all went to Mikael's house. we played apples to apples for a while and ended up heading home around 1130 to avoid all the drunk people. i no longer work at kohls anymore. i did my 3 shifts and now they're done with me. i am now working with hope and chelsae in the carpet cleaning business. its alot of hard work and you actually earn your money as opposed to folding clothes in a store. i just finished my second job with them today actually. i'm getting better already. i've been trying to save up whatever money i earn, but its somehow magically disappearing. i don't quite understand it. i also did the jr high retreat with the girls. it was a good growing time and i was able to work things out with their leadership. me and rendell broke up for a grand total of two days as well. it was really stupid and just a miscommunication. we're back together again. it was a really hard time for me, dealing with breaking up with rendell, not having a job, and trying to figure out my trip. i was really concerned about posting some things i was dealing with because i was afraid people would read it and it would become a problem. when i finally finished greiving dillon's HIV, i found out what was wrong with my sister. i mean we always knew something was wrong with her but we never knew what specific category she fell under. well she was finally diagnosed. my sister is schitzophrenic. i have been sworn to secrecy so she wont be singled out or anything. so i have to bear it completely alone. even after almost a month of knowing, i'm still trying to fight the tears from rolling down my cheeks as i write about it. my sister is crazy. she sees and hears things that aren't actually happening. then she goes to therapy and finds out half of her life was a dellusion and lie. then remains medicated for the rest of her life. schitzophrenia is a degenerative problem. if the medications dont work, she'll eventually lose any grips with reality. how is that not psychologically damaging to know that will happen to your own sister? i've been feeling like i'm beyond repair with the amount of stress that is being thrown at me right now. i need the high school camp so bad but yet it was canceled because of the stupid snow! gah! i hate the snow! i hate how all of the paperwork i need to fill out all depends on each other and cant be done before each other. which one freakin goes first? i hate how school isn't working out at all, i'm in 2 classes this semester. two. i hate how i have no money for my trip. i hate how bad my insomnia's getting. i hate that i've become an emotional wreck over the last two months. i hate that i can't seem to catch a break. i hate that i have no control over my life. sometimes, i really do just hate my life. clarification: am i suicidal or anything? no. just frustrated. Praise Him Always!...somehow.